Oh Gardener, that sucks and you don't deserve it! Sorry to hear that.
You asked the million dollar question with this one - How does a person simply discard a loved one?
Anyway, best wishes to you for 2010! I have a feeling you are going to continue to grow and heal and to be happy as a lark! That's what you deserve! : )
Me: 34 H: 34 DD: 3 M: 8 yrs H moved out Oct. 2008, "not happy" "don't know what I want" "will always love you, but not in love with you" PA Bomb: April 5, 2010