imLIN, ty for your post...it helps!

[mollygirl]

Imlin: well, back from my little trip. (Was supposed to have been married on New Years) wow! What a blow. One of our friends talked to him on New Years Eve and he said, I heard she went on a trip, I hope she didn't go bvy herself, blah.. Also, the friend said, I sure wish my friends would find their way back to each other and he said, well, never say never...

Now, I have made no effort to contact him since December 16, and have not heard from him. This is the longest I have gone with some contact. So now what? I am continuing the DBing as well as I can since I have no contact with him.

I have had several friends in this situation in the last 3 years (is it an epidemic???) and they all say, "he is crazy" he will "wake up" and realize what he has done.

My question is what do I do now? Nothing...??