It took me a while to realize this, and you are right on all accounts. I am the kind of guy that can take a punch to the head because he f*&%ed up. I was partially to blame.
In the past, I have been approached and still do get approched by women who are forward. I have recieved emails asking me to meet them somewhere. They even ask me to go out with them for a meal or a concert. Even though my marriage hasn't been that good, I never would have strayed. I resisted. I felt that I would cheat so many others for my own moment of selfish pleasure. From what I have seen, no affair has a happy ending.
She lied and cheated. She was selfish. I am having a hard time trusting her now.
Junco, sorry for the thread highjack. I don't know how I could have kept her affair to myself. Exposing it stopped it in it's tracks. After it was exposed she felt that all eyes were on her. She wanted to be seen....alone.
Me:49 W: 41 Kids=D14/D14/S10 Married: 15 Together: 16 Bomb: 08/26/09 Currently: separated but in the different houses.
