CTH, she's been gone for 6 months with a brief return (5 weeks) 3 months ago. Said she wanted to come back and try US for the sake of the kids, but really it was just for her to be closer to them.

GIMA, I agree that I can't be pursuing and yes it's entirely likely that the R talks we've had in the past are what's putting her off coming round.

It would be the first real test of my resolve if she did and we could get thru an evening without me doing anything dumb.


H: 44
W: 42
Married: 23 years
Bomb: 16/07/2009
PA Confirmed: 16/01/2010
Over it & working on ME: Feb'ish 2010