Kids have suggested they invite W for tea one night and have tentatively done that. W's response was 'I don't know, maybe when I'm not busy'. I know that that's a "I'm having such a good time and am out enjoying myself without you H" dig, but I'm wondering if her coming round could be a good idea.
If we can all have a nice family tea without any R talk or pressure from me, it would give her a chance to see how much work I've done round the house and how much better it looks (for those that don't know one of the things W walked out on is the house we built together over 10 years).
Also she got S15 Guitar Hero for XMas and it would give her a chance to see what she's missing out on by not seeing the rest of us have an absolute blast playing it together as a family.
She hasn't been interested in coming round for weeks except to pick up the kids and then she doesn't come inside. I choose to think that she would miss the place and everything it stands for if she did, so is resisting the temptation to come in.
Anyone's thoughts would be more than welcome.
H: 44 W: 42 Married: 23 years Bomb: 16/07/2009 PA Confirmed: 16/01/2010 Over it & working on ME: Feb'ish 2010
