Well, I went crazy and did the unthinkable, called mom and dad for advice. They have been married for almost 60 years.

I am going to be friendly but try to have very limited contact. I think the marriage is to dead to try anything else, at least for now. No more games, just be myself. If that is not good enough, then it is not good enough. Her loss, right?

The acceptance part of all this is going to be an uphill climb, but I know at the top happiness awaits. This holds true for all of is.

ClingingToHope, no more snooping...it will only cuase more damage at this point...trust me!


Me41 W43
M9 T13
S8 D6
Bomb 1/4/08
EA Discovery 7/10/08
S 6/13/09
2nd EA/PA Discovery 7/15/09 (same guy)
D-Day 3/8/10