I heard 5, 7 and 14. However, either way it appears most of us around here fit into the 5 and 14 range. Really sad. I know we contributed to issues in our marriages as did our spouses. Sad how they can just throw it away and the impact on the kids.
I always get the statement that it isn't good for the kids to have their parents married if they don't love each other. My W is one of those people that has never really had a long term relationship because she "falls out of love" and thinks that relationships should be easy and always have the "in love" feeling.
M 33 | W 34 | Kids: S4, S3 M: 5/28/05 Bomb: 8/22/09 EA: 8/1/09 | PA 12/26/09 W L: 10/21/09 M L: 11/16/09 | 12/09 to file SA W & Boys Move Out: 3/14/10