My WAW stuck?

[Kemper]

I know I am doing the right thing. She made her choice and instead of working on the issues in our M decided to shack up with another man. That was her choice and I have nothing to do with it. She has to live with that the rest of her life. I really feel sorry for my boys with how their mother is acting.

It is really hard to watch the person I fell in love with and married be so cold, deceptive, and manipulative. I read about the different types of affairs today and I can see her in possible two of them. Both of them actually have good odds at saving the marriage but I can only focus on myself and the boys and move forward.

What is really sad is the man she is having the affair with is really just using her as he is a player. I can't belive she is falling for it since he is still sleeping around with other people while she is so interested in him and to top it off she knows it and he just tells her not to ask about it.

I am at a point now where I just wish she was out of the house. However, I know that won't happen until we have our separation agreement in place.

As of now she still thinks I don't know about the affair. That will come out with the lawyers when there isn't any alimony in my agreement. Right now I have said my peace about not sharing her with another man and got the typical "we are just friends" and "I am not going to admit to something that I am not doing" so in due time I can expose. At this point my lawyer wants me to keep my mouth shut so she can use it as leverage.