Thought I would start a thread over here (hope there's room left). Some of you know me - I recognized some of the posters over here.
Bomb April 2009, followed by the usual mistakes on my part. I have been DB'ing since May 2009. Don't believe there is or was an OM. W simply does not want to be M'd. But, she has done nothing to move forward with a D. And, it's been quite a while.
While we are living under the same roof (and have been since the bomb), we are, for ALL intents and purposes, seperated. Seperate bedrooms since the bomb.
In late Nov., W agreed to go to MC and agreed that reconciliation was something she would consider. A couple of weeks later, she says she never said reconciliation was on the table and she was only going to MC for co-parenting." At that point, I was done. I remain open to work on the M if she decides to, I am convinced she means it and I still am willing to. I see no other alternative than pushing forward with hammering out an agreement and/or filing a D action.
Hope I can continue to learn over here and maybe help others a little too.
