I just wrap my hands around her for a few minutes and then either walking out to sleep somewhere else or staying there but don't touch her again. I have not told her why I don't want to have sex with her.
I don't get this. When she lays down with you isn't she kind of reaching out? Then you get up and go elsewhere. What's the message you are trying to send?
I did that a lot to my W two to three years ago. It was childish and helped close her heart.
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