Wife wants best of both worlds

[ClingingToHope]

I feel like that a bit as well and several have hammered me for being too nice. At times, I look back and feel like we really haven't been married for three years -- things changed in January 2007 for what must have been a variety of reasons.

I haven't seen any D paperwork and actually am considering pushing for it myself because I made some bad decisions last May that I'll probably need legal help to rectify.

My girls are 7 and 10 and the 10-year-old really, really wants us to get back together. So if I end up filing it's going to be really hard to tell her.