Separated, new baby, but still hopeful

[newmama]

Oops I realized I used the wrong saying...not what goes down must come up! That goes against the law of physics! Am a little sleep deprived. Once you hit rock bottom the only way out is UP!

And sorry if my posts are conflicting...but I guess it reflects my true state of mind! :-) Honestly, I really am focusing on being mysterious and GALing for the next month. So, I will be going out, and playing my wii as new GAL, and continue to clean, exercise and cook new dishes. As for being mysterious/distant, I will be accountable by documenting my actions here on DB forum! Like tomorrow, WH will come over 11-4. I plan to be gone or busy for at least 4/5 hours! Exercise, getting ready and grocery shopping usually take up 3 hours. I can be distant by doing chores around the house without talking to WH.

Well, I just added another event to my schedule! There is a get together at a country-western bar (not my thing usually) with the single parents group. My SIL can babysit again. I'm not sure if I need to let WH know that she is, since it will be Saturday night and that is not his usual visiting schedule. Going out again is part of GAL. If he doesn't know I am going out then how will he know I am being mysterious? How do I handle this?