I will second that opinion !!! She does NOT get it. I think she just wants you to be happy - but your exh cannot do that. You will find someone if that is what you want. Both my kids are rethinking the whole marriage thing... they have many close friends and full lives.
I think if I had friends like they did... I wouldn't worry about being with just one person either. They really take care of each other. In the past, before I got married I had friends who had decided to stay single and have full lives. My life was full then too... maybe again.????