Yes, it is sad. However, we all know that there's nothing we can do about it. They have to go through the entire crisis and some day, when they wake up, they may feel like fools.
All you can do is pray for them.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
