“She wants answers.” What about what you want? DO NOT give in to her demands. This is not her show. It’s a two way street. Some other possible responses to her:
“I prefer not to discuss it now, and what’s the rush?”
“Any discussion about our relationship is too important to be rushed and certainly cannot be resolved in a single discussion. I prefer to hold off on this for now. Please understand that I will not be pressured or dictated to on this matter.” This worked wonderfully for me. It shows strength and puts off the conversation indefinitely. But be ready. It will piss her off. Let her stew.
Just my .02
Norm
H: 50 W: 48 Married 20 years Bomb and separation: 9/12/09 A discovered 12/02/09 http://tinyurl.com/yctnhec
