Hey! I hear you! I feel the same way about my little loony tune...not my problem any more either!
Yes, we can now sit back and laugh at the antics...so much better than at the beginning.
Hugs to you and your son. Take care!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.