Newbie with almost WAW - Need Advice

[chatterbug]

Hi Sandi. Like I said. Its the LRT of a good Plan A.

And there has to be a plan. It can not be done as some random event by the LBS. It must be set in play. It must be planned. The level of the affair must be weighted as well. It must occur after the boundary conversation with the WS has been done and WS's actions is to continue the affair. Actions have consenquences. One should not hide from the truth. Nor should one hide the truth for their partner.

Think of it this way. Pretend that when you were confronted you decided to walk away completely and engage in a EA/PA. Your H allowed you to cake eat for 6 to 8 weeks. Forever keeping quiet and shielding you from the consenquences of your actions. Allowing you to step past any boundary he made. How much respect would you have for him now? Would you even be with him? Would he still be with you?