snodderley thanks for asking we are fine love thankyou, it as been a long hard road, but now I realise nothing is going to change with ex and myself, we talk we are amicable and that is all, son is now having a relationship with his dad and as recently took the plunge to go to have tea with dad and the ho, apart from that we are happy, have our own little lives and have moved on in leaps and bounds, where all of a sudden ex became an outsider, but I have to say I still have my moments and I still have my laughs at the things he does, just like the business with the clothes, but not to worry he isnt my fruitcake anymore and never will be, hope you are good too snodderley x