M, Had to say, but my first thought was guilt...maybe he thinks you are spending entirely too much on your son's clothing and he feels bad about it? But, on the other hand, I'm wondering if this is what happened to him at that age and history is repeating itself.
Who knows what he's thinking these days. He's a basket case and doesn't need anyone to assist him in being stamped "certified".
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
