MWG, I do believe that you are as stubborn as these MLCers! I can understand leaving your marriage and H to God, but with that being said, I do believe that God has revealed much to you regarding your H and his treatment of you and your family and I am not sure you are listening.......... I mean you said it perfectly yourself "who wants to stay with someone who sits around all day and is doing nothing to find a job" Do be fooled about the OW putting up with that, they are just as stubborn as MLCers and will tolerate behavior like that to prove they can keep them.
