so son took the plunge and went for tea again, that I can handle, but there is a little something that is flummoxing me and causing me to chuckle a little to myself, when my son goes out he is always smartly dressed, always has been and always will be, he as never had to have other peoples hand me downs. so why is it then that all of a sudden when visiting his dad in this new sitch does dad feel the urge to give son some of his old clothes, that I have to say wont even fit son, but even son comes in laughing and says hes give me more clothes, they are not sons style, wont fit, and are second hand,and are shabby, what is all this about. x