Well, normally when H runs away, I don't really hear from him except when he is on his way back from where ever. I'll get an email like "I'll be home at 5 - what's for dinner" as if him running away is just a routine thing. This time on New Years Eve, at 12:11 I get this email "Happy New Year, Miss Kitty. I love you". Miss Kitty was always his nickname for me. It was nice to get the ILY, but I also know you can't believe what they say or write. Is he with OW? No idea. Would he write to me from his phone with her standing there? I know we're not supposed to try to analyze things that they do but this seems like such a step in my direction I'm trying not to get my hopes up too much. If he loves me, why does he have to run away?
You are so right - he seems like he's more like he used to be, the real husband, not the space alien, and I can't understand why he just can't wake up. Kind of like what your D said "you should be here with us" - I wonder why they can't seem to see that. (sorry, just ranting)
Hope your weekend is going well.
Me - 38 Husband - 40 MLC! Together 12 years Married 11 years Still the love of my life Forever only lasted 10 years before his MLC and affair
