Thank you I am more relaxed after a night's sleep. Sleep sure does make a difference!
H did txt me that he "should have been clearer" about his plans" and I reminded him that our son has had lots of family time so of course he expects that to continue = unless H explains to him. I told him he needs to be clear with S about his scheduling, implying I don't want to be the one to clean up his mess.
As for partying, this is something H has picked up since leaving - would have never done this before. He absolutely always does it away from S and I would enforce that no matter what. It's if he comes over here tired and hungover thenI'm frustrated - but I would never leave him alone with S like that. I'm definitely there with S the whole time also. Hopefully when he comes out of the fog, he'll leave the partying behind as it's so unlike him.
I love th idea of having sentences ready - I'll have to think that one out when I'm alone, and I'll post them here later!
Ok, so focus on me time - me and S. We have such a great time together, it's going to be a great weekend. We have lots of dinosaur and firetruck activities planned
