Hey Thinker,

I am in a very similar situation that you were in a year ago. I just had some time today to go through your thread. Someone suggested that I look you up because our sitch's are so similar. It looks like we did the same things..neglected our wives because we didn't understand their love languages. BTW, our wives LL are the same.

I would appreciate any advice that you could give me because we are so much alike.

Thanks and

Happy New Year


Me:49
W: 41
Kids=D14/D14/S10
Married: 15
Together: 16
Bomb: 08/26/09
Currently: separated but in the different houses.