I would like to strongly suggest that you make all your decisions based on what is the right thing to do. The counter-intuitive things you have done, are the right thing to do. They are working. Keep them up.
You are a MAN. You are going to make your decisions calmly. Just think of Clint Eastwood. How does he make his decisions? He just does the right thing.
Anyway, keep up the positive changes. Learn from each interaction. Talking about the R is NOT the answer. Changes in the way you interact with her are the answer. When Talking moves to R, "I have decided we have talked enough" and walk away......
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
