Junco,

It's amazing that you can post on this board without your wife snooping and finding out. I have to keep this forum so hidden. I have a mac at home so I can selectively delete the history of my visits here. I also delete the history on my iphone. If she found this, I would be in real trouble. This is a circle of friends that I don't want her to discover;-)

Everyone here has given me the strength to make it through all this. I would have continued to do the wrong things if I hadn't come here.

Your sitch will continue to be in my prayers and I will follow along with you too.

Best,


Me:49
W: 41
Kids=D14/D14/S10
Married: 15
Together: 16
Bomb: 08/26/09
Currently: separated but in the different houses.