She is the type that wants answers. She told me that she wants to know before Monday so that she knows where we stand. This is the part that I didn't think through. How do I convey to her that this is not up to her to decide? She already felt if I was controlling. Although looking bcak at it it was controling through inaction which is different than what I am doing now.

She stated again that she wanted to talk about the conv we had last night. She wanted to talk about it b/c she stated she said some things that she wanted to either take back or explain. She refered to things that were hurtful. I can validate but she is looking for answers from me. Is it "normal" for WAS types to get very angry when all you are doing is validating and they want answers.

She wants to know if we are going to reconcile or not. I feel that is a topic for way in the future. Kind of like don't touch it with a 10 ft pole kind of stuff. She is all over the map right now.

OldPilot: Could you expand upon "wait for actions". What actions am I looking for from her?

Thanks again

"The first step in the acquisition of wisdom is silence, the second listening, the third memory, the fourth practice, the fifth teaching others."
Solomon Ibn Gabriol