I feel a lot like you. I didn't want the divorce so I don't want to be the one who files. But it appears as if W hasn't saved a dime to do the deed.
The "third choice" -- limboland -- is a lousy place to be and I keep mentally getting ready to move forward and file and then a little voice in the back of my head -- perhaps it's Dottie the DB coach or just my heart -- that says, 'you know, eight months isn't that long. If it's worth saving, perhaps it's worth waiting a little longer.'
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6
