I think Ive been doing great at not showing any sighn of the sadness I feel
Stop thinking and start doing... just like NYE. Didn't that turn out better than expected?
Originally Posted By: wifeleft2009
for loosing the love of my life to not only another guy but such a looser.. its more than a slap in the face when you see how bad this guy looks
Newsflash... it's not about looks. If think that this is all there is to attraction you are sadly mistaken. It's about attitude, body language, composure, confidence and more. I think you need to take some time aside and examine yourself thoroughly. Why? Because you're too focused on appearance and looks. Sorry to say, but that's immature thinking.
Originally Posted By: wifeleft2009
anyway I cant help but wonder when or even if she will she see what she did!
This is where you are tripping yourself up. What she thinks or feels while she is living in her fantasy and rejecting you are no longer your concern. Whether she will or won't have remorse is beyond your control and a waste of energy. Focus on what you can control and improve: Yourself, your kids.
Originally Posted By: wifeleft2009
I still have a hard time beliving life is good living with parents, no car, no job...
If you don't like something you can choose to change it...
This quote is from the movie Shawshank Redemption: You can get busy living or you can get busy dying
In the end its all about your choice.
(You have my sympathy, but NOT my pity WL. Get your ass in gear. This is all about mindset... and choice.)
