Yea, it doesn't make sense to me either. She's obviously confused.
She now has strep, and I've been taking care of her for the past 24 hours, including getting her meds this morning. I'm trying to be caring, but still detached.
In general, I do call her out on the lies. I didn't with the NYE delay in coming home. But I usually say, "You know, you can be honest now. There's no need to continue lying."
I'm dividing up the bills this weekend, so she can begin to start paying her share of them. I like the idea of saying "Your boyfriend" instead of his name.
Was talking to a buddy of mine last night and he was discussing how a divorce is really just a piece of paper. It made sense to me, and makes me less afraid of it, though i still want to avoid it. Just trying to keep perspective and make sure I take care of myself and my boys. And detach.
