how to handle friends...new friends that i really dont know, both men and women of his?

i feel like this is turning into a competition...one that I REFUSE to compete in!

me 39
h 38
kids 9 and 6
h left 8/9/09
loving and devoted wife and mother
still going...10 months later...




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