Originally Posted By: cutterbug
P. I do not think it was an exit affair in your relationship.

I think it was a power based move getting back at you for not meeting her every need.

I think that this is a lesson she learned from her Mother. And it played out on a sub-consious level.



Cutter I am about to go out so this is a really quick response.

Please tell me how on EARTH you figured that out? and also WHY it's not an exit affair? The longer the explanation the better for me.

I'm not asking to be pedantic, I'm asking because I feel that I could fix an non-exit affair. An exit affair seem to be kind of permanent ...

Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y
Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010

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