I'm know I'm going to get slammed left, right and center for this but I would be remiss if I didn't say it.

Because of this:
Originally Posted By: AFWAW
you have not only friended a single guy, you've been over to his house multiple times and you spent New Year's Eve with him at your apartment.

Drop it. Don't send the email. I believe you are wasting your time and it will fall on deaf ears.

You KNOW what worked. DO IT!