You're right. I can't pressure her. She says she isn't in an A. She goes to great lengths to prove that she isn't. I've emailed for information. Have you gone?
Not yet; the next one in my area is the middle of February. But I've emailed for information also, and there are a couple of people around here who have gone through it.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement