Lotus, I agree. The time spent in Retro is minimal. It is my birthday that weekend, maybe it can be her gift to me.
I'm not sure I'd phrase it that way to her; she might feel like she's being pressured to go. I wouldn't boast about the success rate, either.
At the same time, Retrouvaille will probably not work for you if she is actively involved with someone else; they ask that as part of the process.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
