I think with the start of a new year and a new decade, and given that the moderators have stated they'd like us to self-manage our threads so they don't become too long and untenable, I am starting this new thread.

If you want to follow the long dreary road that led to this place, here it is:

King of Pain
King of Pain, 2
If I Could Change The World...
Used To The Pain
She'll Think Of Me
Walk It Off
Winner At A Losing Game
Better Now
One Slip
Unstoppable


As usual, I'm using a song title for my thread.

Things That Matter
Rascal Flatts

Sometimes he lets that boss get in his head
He can't see past that mountain of deadlines on his desk
Five o'clock, he's the last one out of the gate
And he gets cut off, flipped off, ticked off, out on the interstate
And he wonders why this world won't leave him alone
Till he hears that little voice holler, "Daddy's home"

Things that matter
Things that don't

She's held on to that grudge all her life
And thirty years of anger, since her dad walked out that night
She thinks of all the moments that he's missed
All the birthdays, ballets, first dates, it seems too much to forget
She gets that call that said he don't have long
She walks in, he starts crying, the past is gone

Things that matter
Things that don't

Time ain't on our side
Don't wanna leave this world with
"Why didn't I? Why didn't I?"
Yeah, why didn't I?

Sometimes I take on this world by myself
Thinkin' I got all the answers, don't need anybody's help
When God was right there waiting for me all along
To fall down on my knees, surrender all

Things that matter, things that don't
Things that matter, things that don't


I hope the title for this one will keep me focused on the right priorities as I move forward from this point, to begin another new chapter in "the book of my life".

Having said that, is anyone up for a little of the dog that bit them? Yes? No? Either way, the bar's still open, and I've got coffee and soft drinks too.


Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.