What can I do to save my marriage? Help

[Sleepy]

Lotus, I agree. The time spent in Retro is minimal. It is my birthday that weekend, maybe it can be her gift to me. Is it really as good as advertised? I read somewhere 1/1000 get divorced after completing the program.

Bluerain, Yeah it was stupid but sometimes that's what we need. At least we laughed and had fun. I think that went a long way. When we both separated for the evening to go to our rooms for the night she initiated saying "goodnight" Weeks before she would have just disappeared without saying a word, but I don't think she would have watched a movie with me either. I hope you are right about the research she does on her own, but I think she is looking more for "how to end it counseling"

I read your sitch. It breaks my heart to see how other folks get here and what they go through. How are things going with you now?