For those who have been helping me with my sitch -- I've started a new thread over in We're Separated -- Now What?

I don't feel like a newcomer anymore, but I know I'm miles away from Sandi and her nearly 5,400 posts.

Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11
http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz
http://tiny.cc/thread2
http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu
http://tinyurl.com/thread4
http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6
http://tinyurl.com/thread6