I am really impartial to her, in fact it does not surprise me. More than anything I look at the children, and have to ask myself "how can she do this". I can see the emotional changes it puts in them. I really think this is way too soon to do to them. It is way too much for S to handle and he becomes an emotional wreck. It is just sad to see them not know what to do. It also just confirms what I have known to be lies from XW from the beginning. I am in a great place for myself in life, I have met and have been seeing a great girl, she is awesome with the kids, and I couldn't convince her to be a bad influence on things toward my children if I tried. Things that I know the XW and OM do.
