As I said before, I don't know what is going on with your wife. You mentioned that the two of you discussed the possibility that she might be bi-polar. That sounds very plausible to me. I don't believe that she said all those things to you as lies. I think she has emotional problems beyond her control and she means everything she says, both the good and the bad, when she says them. But her emotions swing from one extreme to the other.
