And you are correct. I do care about W and what will happen to the kids (ouch), but I can't do limboland any more. Its strange, b/c this has been a painful process, no doubt, but I am not destroyed by it - instead, I am such a better and stronger person b/c of it.
Financially, we were tight as a M'd couple, but post-D, its gonna be worse for us both for a time. I know I will bounce back, and probably quicker than her (that's not the point though).
Been reading up on narsicism. Wouldn't say W is full blown, but definitely shows tendencies.
