My wife and I have been separated for three and a half months with me living locked up most of the time in our room. Yesterday, I suggested and she agreed to try reconciling for a month - this after she said unilaterally to our kids earlier that day that we were divorcing. It led to some bedwork which was kind of stressful for me because I wasn't really ready. I also realized my attraction to her wasn't as strong as I thought...

Are there others that felt guilty/regretful when you first tried getting back together?

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