I'll tell her about the 2-week notice tonight unless someone else thinks differently. I was about to tell her before her leaving this afternoon, but didn’t because I think the timing wasn’t quite right (note: she told me twice about D and the paper is ready for me to sign). If I tell her tonight, I think I may need to find someplace to sleep to avoid any confrontation?
I don't believe the timing is right, Tango. You are waiting to talk to your lawyer and waiting for other evidence, aren't you? Why make this critical move at this moment? You have not listen to enough advise here on the board and if you act to hastely, it could mess everything up.
Why should you sleep someplace else after telling her she has two weeks to get out of A,etc.? If you leave the house, then you may not be able to go back. IDK.
I suppose my post may be after the fact....if you gave her a two weeks notice last night. I thought you were going to try and talk to Puppy? If you have not told her....then please wait until you have more information.
Unless someone here on the board tells you that you need to do something that very day/night......then they are simply giving you information and do not mean that you need to take those percise steps right that day, okay?
Also, when you ask the board about what you plan to do.....give us plenty of time to respond. I checked your post several times yesterday, but still missed this one very important post. See what I mean? Now, you probably have given her two weeks notice before you got my message today.
Please give us an update on what has happen. BTW, you said you had not slept with her in a couple of nights. What did you say to her about that?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
