One day at a time....

[Hope4us]

Yes Rocked. Stay focused on the positives.

Those triggers will pop up for a long time to come. Ya just have to know they're coming and get through them.

Case in point. I posted about this on my thread, but W and I had an excellent NYE. Yesterday morning W is getting a lighter out for a smoke and finds a book of matches that I'm sure OM gave her. She read the cover to me and said "someone must have given these to me" as she's never been to the city where they were from. I just looked at her with a "do ya think" look and she recognized it pretty quickly and got rid of the matches. Nice trigger for me after a GREAT night.

But I decided I wasn't going to let it F up a great weekend so I powered through the trigger and we ended up having a very nice day. I thought to myself, 'she really didn't do it on purpose and recognized it pretty quickly, so let it go' and I did and we ended up having a very nice day.

Keep up the good work Rocked. It'll be a minefield for a while, but you guys are headed in the right direction.