Believe me when I say I have enough to keep me very busy without having to think about h, and if he were around, it would most likely be very stressful.
He is under a dark cloud right now and there isn't a darned thing anybody can do. He chose this and we are letting him be. These situations do not go on forever and there will come a time when he will get kicked to the curb. I mean really, who wants to live with someone who just sits there all day and is doing nothing to find a job? It will hit him hard because he will have to live in his broken down car in the parking lot, not here.
Like I said, I have enough going on over here.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19