Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[SoldierDad]

I agree.

I think my problem is I want our M "fixed" now. I have to understand that this is a PROCESS, and that it is going to take time to heal, and move forward.

How does the WAS view these things?

I don't know if my W is coming out of the fog, or is just confused and doesn't really know what she wants.

I have to be patient, and understand that she is confused too.

I must continue to db, and do it better than before- for ME.

Patience is my virtue right now-I just have to stick to the plan.

My W knows that I am gone for about 10 more weeks, and she also knows what we both talked about, and that she has decisions to make too.

Gotta lovingly detach, and STAY detached...