I absolutely agree, my point is, that just because they made sense right then, doesnt mean that she can make her actions/choices make sense right now.
You have to accept it, no matter what it is really, but that doesnt mean that you stop DBing, infact, it means that now you need to DB more than ever!
And even if she does truly, sincerely mean all of it, rushing back into things too soon and not forcing yourselves to take things slow and solve your problems will jeopordize everything.
Just stay careful is all we are saying. Dont let her bamboozle you... as soon as my H said he wanted to try again, I fell for it, and you can tell from my signature line how well it worked out. I fell for it as hard as anyone, and instead of asking him to earn his way back into the M, I rushed in. It will not only protect you, but it will give your marriage the biggest chance at succeeding.
Even if she does mean it, and even if she does want to work things out SD, you have to stay detached and go slowly, because at any moment, she could change her mind and end up exactly back where she was two weeks ago.
I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...
