Originally Posted By: CountingCrows
I do still have feelings (both emotional and physical) for W1 after all these years, but I recognize that I'm extremely vulnerable right now.

Good that you know you're susceptible right now.

Originally Posted By: Lotus
But I think having an XW to date at this point is a wonderful thing. It shows that you treat your exes well, that she wants to be with you again.

I don't think you should date XW1, and agree it is a good thing that you are on friendly terms with her.

If you don't mind me asking, what were the reasons for the first divorce?