Well tonight was the night that I told my wife that I was not moving out. How did she take it? Not that it matters but I am glad that she doesn't have telekinesis. I am sure that I would have been blown up several times. I stayed calm throughout the entire conv (2hours) off and on. Later in the conv she asked where I was sleeping and I replied our bed, something that I hadn't done in 2 months. When given the choice to move out if she wanted to she said "Do you think I am stupid? That would look like I am abandoning my child. She also added that she would move out w/o S3 over her dead body. (nice touch)

She later said we'll let the lawyers handle the custody. I validated and then backslid, adding with what money? She is sleeping in the guest room that has a futon in it. It is uncomfortable as can be.(trust me I know) I do feel bad about it b/c over her back issues right now but she does have a choice to sleep in our bed.

She is back in the computer/guest room right now. Started to try and talk about a schedule for when we needed to watch S3. She was less than receptive. She started talking about babysitting and her fee. I just tried to end it there. She wouldn't let it go.

Many more details, lets just say that she is in crisis now.

Last edited by williaij; 01/02/10 04:36 AM.
"The first step in the acquisition of wisdom is silence, the second listening, the third memory, the fourth practice, the fifth teaching others."
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