K4D It's a Wonderful Life

[K4D]

My evening was great.

W called 5 times yesterday not once leaving a voice mail. I never called her back. She then called again this morning and finally left a voice mail. She said on her voice mail that it is ridiculous that I am not answering her phone calls and she had things she wanted to ask me yesterday and also was wanting to know when I was going to be getting the kids.

I called her back a couple of hours later and asked when she would like to exchange the kids. She said 4. I said ok. She then asked how my new years eve was. I said it was great and that I had a lot of fun. She said hers kind of sucked and they ended up at a country bar as her brothers W was wanting to meet a friend there who ended up being drunk and the whole thing sucked. I said ya, sounds like it did suck. Mine was great. She asked me to tell my friends hi. She doesn't know that they are totally against her and have no interest in hearing from her. I said I will be there at 4 to get the kids and got off the phone.

They had been friends of ours for 9 years and they are disgusted with her choices.

Anyways, I get there at 4 to get the kids. The kids start getting their things ready and W starts talking to me about the kids and their week and day. Finally I said that sounds great and started walking off to help D12 bring her stuff out. So I get the kids in the car and W asks me to come over for a minute out of the kids hearing range. I'm thinking great, what now.

So I go over to her and she proceeds to tell me that OM was with them and that it went really well and reiterated that he is just a friend. At that point I told her I didn't think it was appropriate. And she said to have a friend there? I said guys. I said I wish you would have talked to the C before doing this, but that she is going to make her own choices. She got mad and started to walk off. I said have a good night and I got in the car and left. Apparently OM was with them yesterday and today. And W just continues to lie to me to cover her rear on this.

Truth be told, it bothered me that she still lies to me and is inserting this guy into my kids lives without any regard to how it will affect them and without even checking with the C first. But the C has already addressed this so W is trying to play it off as a friend since she knows showing the kids a R right now would not be good for them. I know she was mad that I was not agreeing with her that there is nothing wrong with this.

I will continue to stay dark and work on plans and research.

Kevin